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Communication Tips

The following points may seem rather demanding and I apologize for that impression. You see the natural thing for someone with a hearing loss is to withdraw. I've done that so often I think people may consider me rather aloof and unfriendly. If you can meet me halfway by following these communication strategies, I will be more than happy to do the extra work it takes for me to have a conversation. It can be very lonely having a hearing loss. Let's talk!

1. Get my attention before you begin speaking. No fair sneaking up on me. Really, it's too easy to startle me. I will jump every time. Make your presence known.


2. Face me. Once you turn away, I'm no longer able to hear you.


3. Do not cover your mouth with your hands. I know this is an unconscious gesture on your part, but I need to see your lips to "hear" you.


4. Allow me time to respond. Just because there is a delay in my response, it doesn't mean I didn't hear you, I may just need more time to figure out what you said.


5. Repeat or restate as necessary. I won't ask unless I really need it.


6. Get to the point. Long, detailed stories are not for me. Sorry, but if I get lost and your story seems too complicated, I will give up on it.


7. Written instructions or diagrams are always helpful.


8. Group conversations are uncomfortable for me. I would much prefer to talk one on one. If I leave a group setting, it's because I'm tired and unable to keep up with the conversation, not because I don't like you. I enjoy private conversations in quiet settings.


9. If we can communicate by text or email, I prefer that over the telephone EVERY time. I avoid using the phone as much as possible. If you receive a phone call from me, please know that I am making a special effort to communicate with you.